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Lots of learning in 1st grade

Dear NHL,

Today was a rough day for all of us. For some reason, every little thing was a battle. You were defiant, rude, and had a major attitude. We are not sure where you picked up this behavior, but it has to end. Daddy and I hope that this is not something you do at school since your teacher has never mentioned it. Even if we are upset with you, always know that we love you.

This week, you got your first progress report at school. Your teacher said that you love to learn and pick up new things quickly. You received an "E" (excellent) in almost everything and the rest were all S+ (just under the E). The only thing she mentioned is that you need to work on sitting and raising your hand since you get so excited to share your thoughts. This is definitely a skill that most first graders learn during the year, so we are not worried. As you know, Mommy taught first grade and remembers all of the kiddos with the wiggles. We can not wait to see your full report card, which we get the day before we see The Wiggles.

Another big event from the past week was finally starting Hebrew School. The first week was before all of the Jewish Holidays at the end of September and start of October while we were at Cousin S’s birthday party. Thanks to all of the time off and a new teacher, you were a little worried. We walked you in to meet your teacher and left you. When we came back three hours later, you were happy. You talked about making your Torah and having fun during Israeli Dance time.

Torah time

Tomorrow, we will talk to your teacher to let her know that your homework was a little confusing for us. As you saw tonight, Mommy and Daddy can read Hebrew some, but we do not know much in the way of vocabulary.

Love, 

Mommy

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Portrait conspiracy of the 6 yr old kind

Last night, we FINALLY took NHL to get his six year portraits done. Yes, he turned six two months ago, but who’s counting?!  Throughout the entire thing, I kept thinking that there has to be a conspiracy. There must be more going on behind the scenes that happens when you go to these studios.

#1 – YESTERDAY, they changed the prices. Just our luck. We wait this long and they do it on the day that we finally go in. *sigh*  Had the flu not gotten our house, we probably would have done this 2-3 weeks ago. Oh well, what can you do?

#2 – There has got to be something in the air once you enter the studio zone. The kids are great and cooperative when out in the waiting room. The second they walk into the actual room with the camera all bets are off. This happened in June with JSL for his 2 year portraits (had to do them twice since he would not stay still) and this time it was NHL’s turn. It was like someone was pumping sugar into his veins. He was bouncing off the walls after the first few pictures. NHL would wiggle, dance like he had ants in his pants, and look at the computer monitor instead of the camera.

#3 – Although you never really get the perfect photo, you select the best of the bunch just so you do not have to trudge back again for a second round of "fun" and excitement. I definitely felt this way last night. Even now I am second guessing what was ordered because I sort of like a different one more. Oy!

#4 – The child that is not celebrating their "birthday" is always the better behaved one. That child is the one that will pose, sit quietly and help to make the session work. I swear in May, I am telling NHL it is for him and not for JSL to test this theory.

So, you want to see some of the photos? Here are some thumbnails of the ones taken (sorry they are not the best). First up are the photos with the 6. We took dinosaur and Nintendo/Mario props with us. Two with dinosaurs made the photographers cut and only one with Nintendo.  

Photos with the 6

We went with the first one because it was the best. TechyDad liked that one more than #3 because of the smile on NHL’s face. #2 was never really in the running.

Next, NHL was asked to go onto the floor. The photographer captured this gorgeous shot (this does not do it justice): 

Relaxed close-up

From this point on, the session started to go downhill. NHL was wired and did not listen well and could not stay still. He was looking the other way, doing a goofy smile, or something else that a six year old boy would do. Only three from this section made the photographers cut. (Please note the bad cropping was the program I used and not the studio) 

6 Year old no go photos

Then we decided to be really brave and toss JSL into the photos. We were shocked that it was the little guy that was listening to what the photographer said (unlike at his portrait session in June). The photographer tried a few cute poses, but the little guy had a hard time balancing. Still, she sold us on this one: 

The boys

Now I need to stop second guessing the sheets that we ordered and go with it. I know I did this last year as well, guess it is just a mother’s job!

 

TheAngelForever

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Here comes the cold

Thursday morning, we officially had to break out the winter coats for the boys. It was below 30 degrees when NHL left for school and the high was barely going to make it into the upper 40’s. Of course that would not be too bad, but the wind has made it seem even worse. We bought NHL a new new coat at the end of last season when his old coat’s zipper broke and could not be fixed, but the new one barely fits him. It is fine for now, but we’re not sure if it will make the entire winter.

After TechyDad took NHL to school, I went digging to find the new coat that we bought JSL last year. I pulled it out of the bag from the store and tried it on him. It is a little big, but should be good for the cold months ahead. He loved wearing it around today. In fact, he complained when I tried to unzip it at the grocery store and remove his hands from the built in mittens. It was so warm and cozy that he fell asleep when going to school to pick big brother up from his after school club.

Here is the little guy modeling his jacket.

Ready for the cold months ahead

1. Personal nose warmer, 2. Hands are covered, 3. Shy guy ready to go

Now I just need to buy some new yarn to knit him a new scarf, check on the boots and snow pants for both boys and decide if I can get a new coat for myself.

So my question to you this week:

Are you ready for the cooler/cold/freezing weather?  See covered most of the bases no matter where you live!  If you are not ready, what do you still need to get?

TheAngelForever

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Thanks to Kailani at An Island Life for starting this fun for Friday. Please be sure to head over to her blog to say hello and sign the MckLinky there if you are participating.

Aloha Friday by Kailani at An Island Life

Aloha #70

 

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Time to check the eyeballs

Back in August, NHL went to the doctor for his six year old well visit. While talking with the doctor, something caught her attention. She noticed that NHL’s two eyes were not tracking with each other. Immediately, I asked if this could be something related to his low muscle tone. She said it could be and she would like NHL to go and see a pediatric eye doctor. When I went to the parking lot, I called the number for the specialist and took the first available appointment for just over a month later.

Two years before this, NHL was scheduled to have an eye scan done while in preschool. This test was done for free by a local organization to test for several conditions that are often missed on children under the age of five. Unfortunately, thanks to a lost paper at school he was never tested.

So we waited the the day to arrive. Every so often, I would sort of see NHL’s eyes doing what she mentioned, but it was very subtle at best. The appointment was the last week of September. I picked NHL up from school and the two of us went to see the new doctor. First, we went into a room with a technician who examined NHL’s eyes. You could tell this was a practice for children. Finding Nemo was playing on a flat screen monitor on the wall. 

The Eye chart/movie machine

Later, we realized that this not only played movies, but was also a computer that generated the vision tests. It was technology at it’s best. NHL was a little nervous when he was asked to sit in the giant green chair. Admit it, the chair is pretty intimidating looking, especially if you are just six and have never seen one before. 

Big chair for little people

He did really well with the vision tests. Next up was tackling him to get drop in to dilate his eyes for a better exam by the doctor. This was a challenge, but thanks to a fabulous technique by the technician we got it done. NHL and I then went out to the waiting room to wait for his eyes to be ready. After about 30 minutes, we were taken into a room to wait for the doctor. Check out how NHL spent his time. 

Drawing while waiting

The doctor came in, listened to the concerns from our Family Practice doctor and did her exam. She said that his eyes are healthy, look great, and the muscles are working just fine. She said his vision is spot on now, but she would not be shocked if he needs glasses sooner rather than later. If things change in that end we should make another appointment, otherwise we are all set.

So, my question for you: Have you had each of your child’s vision/eyes checked for potential problems?

I think this is an area that many parents are unaware of. We all know to take our children to the dentist soon after they get their teeth, but they are born with their eyes. Even a non-verbal infant could have potential eye defects that are not checked. So here is a quick PSA with some interesting information. I am not being paid for this, I simply wanted to get the word out about the Enfant™ Pediatric VEP Vision Testing System.

Here is some general information about it from their website

The Enfant™ Pediatric VEP Vision Testing System is a child-friendly, non-invasive medical device used to test for visual deficits in children 6 months of age and older. The vision test does not require dilation or sedation, and is a painless, safe test. The Enfant™ is the only objective vision testing device capable of evaluating the entire visual pathway available today. Most insurance plans will pay for this test.

How it works:  After positioning three sensory pads on the child’s head, an operator initiates the test. Cartoon characters appear and music plays while a series of “attention-catching” stimuli are presented to the child on a video display. The Enfant™, using Visual Evoked Potential technology (VEP), recognizes the child’s neurological responses and processes the VEP data.

At the completion of each test, simple "pass/fail" results are immediately presented on the menu-driven operator screen in both graphic and numeric formats. The results are then printed out for the patient’s medical record.

Who are we testing and what are we testing for?

We are testing children six months of age and older in order to detect visual deficits such as strabismus, optic nerve disorders, and severe refractive errors, which could lead to amblyopia.

From the description on the website and other information I have read about it, I am positive that this is what NHL was supposed to have had done when he was four. I am going to contact the local agency that does the testing to see about getting JSL (2) checked. Since TechyDad and I both wear glasses, it can not hurt to be thorough.

The website for the Enfant™ Pediatric VEP Vision Testing System also has a section where parents can answer some questions to help assess your child’s vision. From there you can also get assistance to find a doctor and see how to request a test for your child.

Still not sure what to do, well check out these statistics and see what you think:

  • An estimated 200,000 children are born each year with visual deficits
  • According to the American Optometric Association (AOA), vision disorders are the number one childhood handicap.
  • Only 21 percent of children in the United States have their vision screened before kindergarten.
  • 72 percent of children with vision deficits go undetected until after the window for effective treatment expires. 
  • More than one in 50 children have amblyopia, a serious vision disorder, which can lead to blindness in one eye. 
  • Amblyopia is poor vision in an eye that otherwise appears normal. It occurs when the brain does not recognize the sight from that eye. It is very difficult to detect Amblyopia  
  • 3.8 million adults are legally blind in one eye or visually incapacitated due to amblyopia.

Again, I am sharing this information that was passed along to me to my reader as an FYI. I was not paid to do this and am not a medical professional. I am simply a mother that has a child that is within the 21% that did not have a formal vision screening/eye exam until he was in first grade. Hopefully, more doctors help to get the word out to parents about when we should take our children for their first check up since so little is really out there on this topic.

 TheAngelForever

 

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